25 Insights on how to write well

1. PD James: On just sitting down and doing it…
Don’t just plan to write—write. It is only by writing, not dreaming about it, that we develop our own style.

2. Steven Pressfield: On starting before you’re ready…
[The] Resistance knows that the longer we noodle around “getting ready,” the more time and opportunity we’ll have to sabotage ourselves. Resistance loves it when we hesitate, when we over-prepare. The answer: plunge in.

3. Esther Freud: On finding your routine…
Find your best time of the day for writing and write. Don’t let anything else interfere. Afterwards it won’t matter to you that the kitchen is a mess.

4. Zadie Smith: On unplugging…
Work on a computer that is disconnected from the internet.

5. Kurt Vonnegut: On finding a subject…
Find a subject you care about and which you in your heart feel others should care about. It is this genuine caring, and not your games with language, which will be the most compelling and seductive element in your style. I am not urging you to write a novel, by the way — although I would not be sorry if you wrote one, provided you genuinely cared about something. A petition to the mayor about a pothole in front of your house or a love letter to the girl next door will do.

6. Maryn McKenna: On keeping your thoughts organized…
Find an organizational scheme for your notes and materials; keep up with it (if you are transcribing sound files or notebooks, don’t let yourself fall behind); and be faithful to it: Don’t obsess over an apparently better scheme that someone else has. At some point during your work, someone will release what looks like a brilliant piece of software that will solve all your problems. Resist the urge to try it out, whatever it is, unless 1) it is endorsed by people whose working methods you already know to be like your own and 2) you know you can implement it quickly and easily without a lot of backfilling. Reworking organizational schemes is incredibly seductive and a massive timesuck.

7. Bill Wasik: On the importance of having an outline…
Hone your outline and then cling to it as a lifeline. You can adjust it in mid-stream, but don’t try to just write your way into a better structure: think about the right structure and then write to it. Your outline will get you through those periods when you can’t possibly imagine ever finishing the damn thing — at those times, your outline will let you see it as a sequence of manageable 1,000 word sections.

8. Joshua Wolf Shenk: On getting through that first draft…
Get through a draft as quickly as possible. Hard to know the shape of the thing until you have a draft. Literally, when I wrote the last page of my first draft of “Lincoln’s Melancholy” I thought, Oh, shit, now I get the shape of this. But I had wasted years, literally years, writing and re-writing the first third to first half. The old writer’s rule applies: Have the courage to write badly.

9. Sarah Waters: On being disciplined…
Treat writing as a job. Be disciplined. Lots of writers get a bit OCD-ish about this. Graham Greene famously wrote 500 words a day. Jean Plaidy managed 5,000 before lunch, then spent the afternoon answering fan mail. My minimum is 1,000 words a day – which is sometimes easy to achieve, and is sometimes, frankly, like shitting a brick, but I will make myself stay at my desk until I’ve got there, because I know that by doing that I am inching the book forward. Those 1,000 words might well be rubbish – they often are. But then, it is always easier to return to rubbish words at a later date and make them better.

10. Jennifer Egan: On being willing to write badly…
[Be] willing to write really badly. It won’t hurt you to do that. I think there is this fear of writing badly, something primal about it, like: “This bad stuff is coming out of me…” Forget it! Let it float away and the good stuff follows. For me, the bad beginning is just something to build on. It’s no big deal. You have to give yourself permission to do that because you can’t expect to write regularly and always write well. That’s when people get into the habit of waiting for the good moments, and that is where I think writer’s block comes from. Like: It’s not happening. Well, maybe good writing isn’t happening, but let some bad writing happen… When I was writing “The Keep,” my writing was so terrible. It was God-awful. My working title for that first draft was, A Short Bad Novel. I thought: “How can I disappoint?”

11. AL Kennedy: On fear…
Be without fear. This is impossible, but let the small fears drive your rewriting and set aside the large ones until they behave – then use them, maybe even write them. Too much fear and all you’ll get is silence.

12. Will Self: On not looking back…
Don’t look back until you’ve written an entire draft, just begin each day from the last sentence you wrote the preceeding day. This prevents those cringing feelings, and means that you have a substantial body of work before you get down to the real work which is all in… The edit.

13. Haruki Murakami: On building up your ability to concentrate…
In private correspondence the great mystery writer Raymond Chandler once confessed that even if he didn’t write anything, he made sure he sat down at his desk every single day and concentrated. I understand the purpose behind his doing this. This is the way Chandler gave himself the physical stamina a professional writer needs, quietly strengthening his willpower. This sort of daily training was indispensable to him.

14. Geoff Dyer: On the power of multiple projects…
Have more than one idea on the go at any one time. If it’s a choice between writing a book and doing nothing I will always choose the latter. It’s only if I have an idea for two books that I choose one rather than the other. I always have to feel that I’m bunking off from something.

15. Augusten Burroughs: On who to hang out with…
Don’t hang around with people who are negative and who are not supportive of your writing. Make friends with writers so that you have a community. Hopefully, your community of writer friends will be good and they’ll give you good feedback and good criticism on your writing but really the best way to be a writer is to be a writer.

16. Neil Gaiman: On feedback…
When people tell you something’s wrong or doesn’t work for them, they are almost always right. When they tell you exactly what they think is wrong and how to fix it, they are almost always wrong.

17. Margaret Atwood: On second readers…
You can never read your own book with the innocent anticipation that comes with that first delicious page of a new book, because you wrote the thing. You’ve been backstage. You’ve seen how the rabbits were smuggled into the hat. Therefore ask a reading friend or two to look at it before you give it to anyone in the publishing business. This friend should not be someone with whom you have a romantic relationship, unless you want to break up.

18. Richard Ford: On others’ fame and success…
Try to think of others’ good luck as encouragement to yourself.

19. Helen Dunmore: On when to stop…
Finish the day’s writing when you still want to continue.

20. Hilary Mantel: On getting stuck…
If you get stuck, get away from your desk. Take a walk, take a bath, go to sleep, make a pie, draw, listen to music, meditate, exercise; whatever you do, don’t just stick there scowling at the problem. But don’t make telephone calls or go to a party; if you do, other people’s words will pour in where your lost words should be. Open a gap for them, create a space. Be patient.

21. Annie Dillard: On things getting out of control…
A work in progress quickly becomes feral. It reverts to a wild state overnight… it is a lion growing in strength. You must visit it every day and reassert your mastery over it. If you skip a day, you are, quite rightly, afraid to open the door to its room. You enter its room with bravura, holding a chair at the thing and shouting, ‘Simba!’

22. Cory Doctorow: On writing when the going gets tough…
Write even when the world is chaotic. You don’t need a cigarette, silence, music, a comfortable chair, or inner peace to write. You just need ten minutes and a writing implement.

23. Chinua Achebe: On doing all that you can…
I believe myself that a good writer doesn’t really need to be told anything except to keep at it. Just think of the work you’ve set yourself to do, and do it as well as you can. Once you have really done all you can, then you can show it to people. But I find this is increasingly not the case with the younger people. They do a first draft and want somebody to finish it off for them with good advice. So I just maneuver myself out of this. I say, Keep at it. I grew up recognizing that there was nobody to give me any advice and that you do your best and if it’s not good enough, someday you will come to terms with that.

24. Joyce Carol Oates: On persevering…
I have forced myself to begin writing when I’ve been utterly exhausted, when I’ve felt my soul as thin as a playing card, when nothing has seemed worth enduring for another five minutes… and somehow the activity of writing changes everything. Or appears to do so.

25. Anne Enright: On why none of this advice really matters…
The way to write a book is to actually write a book. A pen is useful, typing is also good. Keep putting words on the page.

Neil Gaiman: Advice on living the creative life

Say “no” to projects that take you further from rather than closer to your own creative goals, however flattering or lucrative. (Hugh MacLeod put it beautifully: “The most important thing a creative per­son can learn professionally is where to draw the red line that separates what you are willing to do, and what you are not.”)

Approach your creative labor with joy, or else it becomes work. (As Ray Bradbury said, “Writing is not a serious business. It’s a joy and a celebration. You should be having fun with it.”)

I learned to write by writing. I tended to do anything as long as it felt like an adventure, and to stop when it felt like work — which meant that life did not feel like work.

Embrace your fear of failure. Make peace with the impostor syndrome   that comes with success. Don’t be afraid of being wrong.

When things get tough, make good art.

Sometimes life is hard. Things go wrong — and in life, and in love, and in business, and in friendship, and in health, and in all the other ways in which life can go wrong. And when things get tough, this is what you should do: Make good art. I’m serious. Husband runs off with a politician? Make good art. Leg crushed and then eaten by a mutated boa constrictor? Make good art. IRS on your trail? Make good art. Cat exploded? Make good art. Someone on the internet thinks what you’re doing is stupid, or evil, or it’s all been done before? Make good art.

Make your art, tell your story, find your voice — even if you begin bycopying others.

You can get work because of the story you tell about yourself, even if it means embellishing, but you keep working because you’re good.

Enjoy your work and your small victories; don’t get swept up into the next thing before being fully present with the joys of this one.

This is an era in which the creative landscape is in constant flux. The rules are being broken down, the gatekeepers are being replaced and displaced. Now is the time to make up your own rules.

Gaiman sums it all up thusly:

Go and make interesting mistakes, make amazing mistakes, make glorious and fantastic mistakes. Break rules. Leave the world more interesting for your being here.

Make. Good. Art.

Meralco – galit kay Corona?

Malamang hindi natutuwa ang mga tagapamahala ng Meralco kay CJ Renato Corona dahil sa binitawan niyang pananalita noong Martes sa impeachment hearings.

Reddy Kilowatt was Meralco’s mascot for a great number of years

Hindi yung, “My conscience is clear”.  (Palaisipan pa rin kasi sa ating mga nakukuba sa taas ng presyo ng kuryente kung may konsensya o wala ang kumpanya.)

Ang malamang na ikina-asar ng Meralco ay nang inilahad ni CJ na “hindi kami nag e-aircon”.

Baka tularan.

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Isa na namang hiwalayan sa Senado. Hindi lang si Sen. Chiz Escudero ang nag-iisa nalang sa kama tuwing gabi. Malungkot na nabalitaan namin na si Sen. Koko Pimentel at ang kaniyang misis – si Jewel – ay naghiwalay na rin.

Sen. Kiko & Jewel Pimentel

Pareho naman silang nagluluksa, siguro’y daanin na lang ng dalawang senador ang lungkot nila sa ma-boteng usapan – sa isang tahimik na lugar tulad ng Air Force One.

Parang epidemya rin ang hiwalayan sa showbiz. Si Heart Evangelista at ang kaniyang syotang Brazilian ay nag break na. Nauna lang ng ilang linggo si Derek Ramsey at si Angelica Panganiban.

Hindi magpapahuli ang mga Kano. Nagsalita na sa wakas ang kasambahay na siyang dahilan ng hiwalayan ni Arnold Schwarzenegger at ng kaniyang asawang si Maria Shriver. Umamin si Mildred Baena na nagkaroon sila ng ugnayan ni Mr. Terminator na nagbunga sa isang anak na lalaking ngala’y Joseph.

Si Mildred Baena at ang kaniyang anak na si Joseph. May kamukha.

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Napapanahon na? Ramdam na nakiliti ang mga mamamayan sa hamon ni CJ Corona sa mga mambabatas na pumirma rin sa isang waiver na pinapayagan ang mga bankong ibulgar ang kanilang mga bank accounts/deposits. Magandang punto. Kesyo pro-Corona o pro-Noynoy ang sinuman sa gobyerno, sigaw ng bayan: kung walang itinatago, waiver pirmahan n’yo.

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Aminado ang maraming mga kababaihan na basta ang usapan ay pera – papaano kikitain, papalaguin o po-protektahan – ang eksperto ay ang mga kalalakihan.

Pero hindi sang-ayon dito ang isang Pinay na kilalang financial adviser sa Asean region. Sabi ni Jocelyn Pantastico na balak niyang baguhin ang pag-iisip na ito.

Dalawang dekada nang nalayo sa Pinas – pero puso’y naroroon pa rin!

Kaya itinatag ni Jocelyn ang Live Olive (www. liveolive.com) – ang kauna-unahan at tanging komunidad sa internet na hustong sisimplihan ang kaalaman ng mga kababaihan sa Asya tungkol sa pera. Dudulutan ang mga kababaihan ng libreng impormasyon at kasangkapan para magtagumpay.

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Huling hirit. Ang paghati-hati ng mga Pinoy sa CJ Corona impeachment ay nabaligtad ng pagsama-sama nila sa nabigong laban ni Jessica Sanchez sa American Idol.

Because times are hard… the Chubibo guide to saving money.

Don’t take more than one bath a week. Save on your water bill.

Lots of people cut their kid’s hair so if you don’t mind your kids looking stupid, you can save at least P1,200 a year.

Wash your clothes half as often. Especially if you live alone and don’t work or socialize.

Be healthy. Being healthy can easily save you thousands of pesos on items like medical expenses and life insurance.

Don’t buy a cellphone with a directory – chances are that feature adds to the cost. Instead, just get the normal phone book and cross out everyone you DONT know.

Put water into empty shampoo bottles, then shake. Tada! You have made more shampoo!

Don’t just water down the kids’ juice, put juice in their water. Make that juice last a month or more.

One square of toilet paper is all that you need. Enough said.

Act sick after eating at a restaurant, then accept your refund along with a new complimentary meal.

When someone calls you cheap, smile and tell them the word is “frugal”.

10 Things Facebook Won’t Say

Even post IPO, the social network that wants users to share everything may not always be quite so forthcoming.

1. “We were in the right place at the right time.”

In the hit movie The Social Network, a college student dumped by his girlfriend reacts by building a crude precursor to “Thefacebook” website. And while Mark Zuckerberg, the entrepreneur portrayed, has said the girlfriend “doesn’t exist in real life,” the success of his invention is anything but fiction. Facebook has 900 million regular users, up from 500 million two years ago, and is now the most visited site in the U.S., according to data tracker Hitwise.

While social networking wasn’t new when Facebook appeared in 2004, industry observers attribute its success to a mix of luck, ambition and strategy. “Mark had all three in spades,” says David Kirkpatrick, author of The Facebook Effect. By initially limiting access to students from select colleges, Facebook (which declined to comment on much of this article) could choose where and when to roll out, protecting it from too rapid growth. The early requirement that people use real names was also a boon. “There was an appetite on the Internet to be yourself and connect to your real friends,” says Kirkpatrick.

2. “We know where you go online…”

In its seven years, Facebook has evolved quickly, adding features like instant messaging and news feeds. But critics say some developments can compromise user privacy. For instance, you can share online content with Facebook friends using the ubiquitous “Like” button. But press it or not, if you’re logged in to Facebook while surfing, it will know when you visit any site with these so-called social plug-ins, says Nicole Ozer, a policy director at the ACLU of Northern California. “Facebook can essentially track you around the Web,” she says. Facebook makes all such policies known to users, but critics wonder how many people are paying attention. Responding to a letter from privacy groups last year, Facebook said it stores users’ Web-surfing data for no longer than 90 days.

3. “…and we hope you don’t mind being tracked offline, too.”

In August, Facebook launched Places, a tool that lets you “check in” at real-life locations, such as restaurants and concert venues, with the help of the GPS on your smartphone. The idea: to let friends know where you are. While 18% of smartphone owners use location-sharing services, according to a Pew Internet & American Life Project, critics warn they can make users vulnerable. Privacy experts cite two problematic Places features: One lets users register virtually any location with the service, even someone else’s home or office; the other lets friends check you into locations unless you disable the setting. That means other Facebook users may know where you live or where you are, even if you haven’t posted that info yourself. Kurt Opsahl, a lawyer with the Electronic Frontier Foundation, encourages users where possible to control the settings that allow for such location updates.

4. “Your account isn’t exactly secure.”

On social-networking sites, it’s increasingly common for scammers to steal passwords and other sensitive data by imitating trusted sources, a practice known as phishing. Facebook is now the second most targeted brand on the Internet, according to monitoring service PhishTank. One scenario: An impostor uses your account to message your friends to, say, ask for money, claiming it’s an emergency. According to David Ulevitch, CEO of Internet-security service OpenDNS, people are especially vulnerable on social networks, because there’s a natural tendency to trust the sender. “It’s not like getting spam in your e-mail for Viagra,” he says.

Phishing could become an even bigger problem on Facebook as more users play online games, purchasing virtual goods and currency via credit card. Stolen card data is lucrative, says Chester Wisniewski, security adviser with antivirus firm Sophos. If you make purchases online, he says, use a credit instead of a debit card, since it can be easier to reverse fraudulent charges. He also recommends password-encryption programs like LastPass.

5. “If it feels addictive, it probably is.”

Randall Sokoloff of Oakland, Calif., joined Facebook to make new friends. It worked. Within a month, he had 175, but the site had become an obsession. Sokoloff says he logged on to Facebook as many as 20 times a day. After discussing his habit with a therapist, he eventually managed to take a break: “It’s like this umbilical cord that keeps you hooked into the computer,” he says. Sherry Turkle, MIT professor of the social studies of science and technology, says some users struggle with living up to the tailored version of themselves they present online. For others, she says, “stalking” leads to burnout, since Facebook makes it easy to spend hours scouring others’ pages. According to Michael Fraser, a clinical psychologist in New York, no official diagnosis exists for Internet addiction, but users should seek help if work or school performance suffers or if they experience mood swings when away from the computer.

6. “We give brands fans and the occasional headache.”

Social networking offers new ways for businesses to connect with customers, and these days many companies create Facebook pages where those who sign up as “fans” can hear about the latest products and deals. It pays: According to research by Michael Scissons, president of Toronto-based Syncapse, which advises firms on social media, a brand’s Facebook fans spend an average of $71.84 more on its products per year than nonfans. “Facebook is giving brands an avenue to communicate with their high-value customers,” says Scissons.

But social media can also cause trouble for businesses. For one, it makes it easy for consumers to organize and complain. When Gap released a new logo in October 2010, there was a flood of negative discussion on its Facebook wall, prompting a quick retreat to its old logo. A spokesperson for Gap says that while it was “thrilled with the passion” customers showed, Gap will approach future logo changes “very differently.”

7. “Get ready for some awkward moments.”

It’s no secret that Facebook is changing the way people interact. Prep school grads can visit their alumni page for job advice, while grandparents can keep up-to-date “with the minutiae of their grandkids’ lives,” says Dhiraj Murthy, a sociology professor at Bowdoin College who teaches a course on Facebook. But the site can cause both personal and professional problems. Employers may search job applicants’ Facebook profiles, and family can do their own snooping. Aria Afshar, a 24-year-old consultant in New York, says his girlfriend was visiting her parents in Italy when she discovered his profile picture on a computer belonging to her parents, who supposedly didn’t know about the relationship. Turns out, they “just put the pieces together through Facebook” and were sending his photo to family members across Italy. “It was a little awkward,” Afshar says.

8. “Apps can be tough to police.”

Facebook launched a platform in mid-2007, letting software developers build applications, or apps, that run on the site. There are now hundreds of thousands of apps, ranging from horoscopes to fantasy football. According to Justin Smith, founder of market-research firm Inside Network, the biggest category of apps, social games, has become an industry unto itself, bringing in projected revenue of $1.2 billion in 2011. But critics say Facebook should do a better job of policing errant app developers, like those recently caught selling user info to a data-collection firm, a violation of Facebook’s rules. Facebook says it is cracking down on such violators; it has also introduced a technical fix to help keep user data from getting shared inadvertently.

9. “We aren’t the only game in town.”

Despite Facebook’s surging popularity, it doesn’t have a monopoly on social networking. In the U.S., there’s LinkedIn, Google+, Twitter and location-sharer Foursquare. The start-up Diaspora calls itself a “privacy-aware, personally controlled” social network in reference to the privacy concerns surrounding Facebook.

But Facebook’s toughest markets may be abroad. The company has yet to succeed in gaining entrance past the great firewall of China, where the social network is banned. And even if the site did gain access, it would face competition from other companies like Renren, Sina, and Tencent, asSmartMoney.com previously reported. Over 450 million people in China have internet access, presenting a big growth opportunity for the company. But entry there could be a long shot, considering China’s ban of other Western media companies.

10. “The site may not be free for long.”

Facebook’s sign up page says “It’s free and always will be.” But that could change after the company goes public, analysts say. Since announcing the site’s initial public offering in February, the company has been experimenting with non-advertising-based ways to increase revenue, the Wall Street Journal reported Thursday. That could mean charging users extra to guarantee a post is seen by all their friends, selling apps, and putting ads on mobile devices. A Facebook spokesman told the Journal the company is trying to “gauge people’s interest in this method of sharing with their friends.”

Investors may demand that Facebook look for other creative ways to increase its revenue. Analysts say one option could be the “freemium” model, in which basic services remain free, while advanced features require a fee.

The Six Enemies of Greatness (and Happiness)

These six factors can erode the grandest of plans and the noblest of intentions. They can turn visionaries into paper-pushers and wide-eyed dreamers into shivering, weeping balls of regret. Beware!

1) Availability

We often settle for what’s available, and what’s available isn’t always great. “Because it was there,” is an okay reason to climb a mountain, but not a very good reason to take a job or a free sample at the supermarket.

And sadly, we'll never know everything.

2) Ignorance

If we don’t know how to make something great, we simply won’t. If we don’t know that greatness is possible, we won’t bother attempting it. All too often, we literally do not know any better than good enough.

3) Committees

Nothing destroys a good idea faster than a mandatory consensus. The lowest common denominator is never a high standard.

4) Comfort

Why pursue greatness when you’ve already got 324 channels and a recliner? Pass the dip and forget about your grand designs.

5) Momentum

If you’ve been doing what you’re doing for years and it’s not-so-great, you are in a rut. Many people refer to these ruts as careers.

6) Passivity

There’s a difference between being agreeable and agreeing to everything. Trust the little internal voice that tells you, “this is a bad idea.”

                                                                                 Jessica Hagy, Contributor (Forbes)

Kapamilya, kapuso… you’ve got new competition – and it ain’t a kapatid. (In fact, it’s not even a TV station.)

Television advertising may be doing just fine despite the slumping economy. But within the next five years, it’s going to be eclipsed by online ads, according to a new report from market watcher Forrester Research. By 2016, Forrester says, advertisers will spend almost $77 billion online, comprising 35% of overall ad spending.

 

Within online advertising, however, lots of changes are ahead. According to Forrester:

* Mobile ads will overtake social ads and email marketing already this year:They’ll hit $8.2 billion in revenues by 2016 as advertisers will want to reach people while they’re on mobile phones and tablets, not just searching at their desk.

* Search ads’ market share will fall: Although search advertising will remain the largest segment, growing to $33 billion, its share of online ads will fall from today’s 55% to 44%. No wonder Google is rushing headlong into display and mobile advertising, not to mention social media.

* Display ads will rise anew: Mostly thanks to rich media ads such as video, these mainstays of most Web sites will see a resurgence, hitting nearly $28 billion and 37% market share of online ads by 2016 as brand advertisers hike spending online. Display ads offer more image-oriented messaging than the mostly direct-response search advertising. What’s more, advertisers will want to reach people wherever they are online, in particular on social media sites such as Facebook, not just while they’re searching on Google. Should be good news for Yahoo–maybe.

* Daily deals will decline: “Consumers will grow so conditioned to micro-impulse offers that they’ll lose practice at considered decisions — in all walks of life, not just when buying spa treatments,” writes study author Shar VanBoskirk. “Facing a cultural descent into maladroit judgment, employers (and spouses) will blacklist impulse deals to keep people intentional.” Look out, Groupon, LivingSocial et. al.–consumers may soon grow weary of your come-ons, if they’re not already.

* Social media will grow relatively slowly: In another surprise forecast, Forrester says spending on social media by marketers will hit only $4.4 billion, or 7% of online ad spend, by 2016. That’s partly because they can set up Facebook pages one time with relatively little ongoing cost, and partly because Facebook, Twitter and other social sites don’t offer much in the way of ad formats yet.

Kamatayan para sa mga bading!

Sumabog ang galit ng mga bading sa iba’t ibang dako ng mundo noong Miyerkoles nang ma-interbyu si Manny Pacquiao tungkol sa “same-sex marriage”. Pahayag niya’y hindi siya sang-ayon. Nagbitaw pa siya ng isang linya sa bibliya hango sa Leviticus 20:13 na nagsasaad na kamatayan ang nararapat sa mga lalaki’ng minamahal ay lalaki rin.

The controversial passage…

Nagpadala agad ng petisyon sa Nike – ang sneaker na ini-endorso ni Pacquiao sa buong mundo – ang isang grupong may ngalang GayMarriage USA. Sinasaad sa petisyon ang pagnanais ng grupong ilaglag na ng Nike si Pacquiao bilang endorser.

Hindi natutuwa ang mga bading!

Sabi ng mga sports experts na malaking abala sa training ni Pacquiao ang bagong gulo na ito. Maaalala na muntik na matalo ang boksingero kamakailan sa laban niya kay Manuel Marquez dahil diumano’y may malaking away si Pacman sa asawa niya. Kumalat pa ang balita na diumano, bago ang laban, ang inihain sa kampeon ay hindi lamang ang paborito niyang tinolang manok nguni’t sinabayan pa ng divorce papers.

Sana’y malampasan ni Pacquiao itong mabigat na bangungot na ito. Kung hindi, baka may kikilalaning bagong kampeon ang mundong hangang-hanga sa kaniya.

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Wala atang magawa ang ilan sa ating mga congressman at kung anu-anong walang kabuluhang panukala ang dinadala sa Kongreso.

Isa dyan ay ang congressman ng Antipolo na pinaglalaban na bigyan ng FIlipino citizenship si JaVale McGee – isang manlalaro ng basketball mula sa National Basketball Association.

Gagawing Filipino citizen – para lamang tayo’y makalamang?

Ayon kay Rep. Robbie Puno, ito ay praktikal na paraan para makalaro si McGee sa koponan ng Smart Gilas Pilipinas at para gumanda ang pakita natin sa mga liga sa ibang bayan.

Naku naman, Mr. Congressman… baka gusto mo namang bigyan ng halaga ang pagiging isang Filipino citizen? Kahit sino ba ay puwedeng basta-basta na lang maging Pinoy – dahil gusto lamang natin makalamang sa larangan ng basketball?

Puno ng kababawan ito, serr.

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Huling hirit. Nagmamatigas ang China at mukhang sadyang pinipikon ang Pilipinas dahil sa away natin sa kanila tungkol sa Scarborough Shoal. Una’y pinayuhan ng China ang mga mamamayan niya na wag na tumungo bilang turista sa Pilipinas. Inupakan din ang 500,000 kahon ng saging na ineksport natin sa bayan nila na pinatapon naman sa dagat dahil may peste “kuno”. At umuugong ang balita na ang mga papaya natin ang susunod na pag-iinitan.

Mahirap ang maliit!

At ang malungkot… tayo ay tameme lang. Mahirap ang maliit.


Why Weird is Wonderful (and Bankable)

You know who’s weird?

Astronauts. Saints. Nobel Prize winners. Scientists. People with hobbies you’ve never heard of or are afraid to try. People who speak their minds. People with both problems and (gasp) solutions. People who are (enviably) not like you. Being weird means being noticeably different. It means being or doing something that makes other people stare, or laugh, applaud, or boo. And it’s something we all need to cultivate.

Your weirdness is valuable. Here’s why:

Weird has less competition.

Weirdness, by its very definition, is a deviation from the norm—the opposite of a commodity. Weird makes its own markets. Weirdness makes its own rules. Weirdness provides breathing room and leverage.

Weird is less painful.

To fit inside the cookie cutter, you have to lob off a part of yourself.  It hurts less to just be authentic. Stop exhausting yourself pretending to be someone or something you’re not.

Weirdness fosters community.

Weird does not equal alone. Google anything you like, and there’s probably a fan club in support of it. When you admit your weird interests or hobbies or skills, you can and will find others who understand, empathize, and share what you thought was an isolating trait.

Weirdness creates automatic notoriety.

Whatever is most unique about you will become your defining trait. This is how we end up with nicknames and calling cards. And when your calling card is actually special, it’s easy for others to remember you. Wouldn’t you rather be “Amy with the trapeze company” than “Amy with a Y”?

More weirdness means more freedom. When you’re not trying to fit in, you’re free to stand out. Standouts, if you hadn’t noticed, command respect and attention. Sometimes stepping out of line means you don’t have to wait to do what you always wanted to.
Weird calls for premium pricing. Different isn’t always better, but better is always different. Take advantage of the fact that most people won’t ever dare to be deviant (even positively deviant), and price your goods, services, and qualities accordingly.
Weird is nontransferable. 

You can’t get a degree in being weird. There’s no official uniform for the weird (contrary to what you learned in high school). You don’t lose your special qualities if you lose your job. You can’t forget your weirdness in your other coat. Weirdness—the kind that isn’t an act—is a part of you.  And while it might be bullied into hiding or hidden in plain sight, it’s not something you can ever truly lose.

Weirdness: it’s great for parties.

It’s not small talk when you bring up your big weird thing. Weird done right (that is, honestly and positively) is captivating and attractive. Weird is not creepy: weird is what makes life less boring.

- Jessica Hagy, Contributor (Forbes)